Dan Farr, 1927-2019, was (and always will be) my dad, my teacher, my mentor, my advisor, my guide, my example, my coach, and the man most responsible for discipling me. He was a man of highest Christian character, devotion to his Savior and to my mom and family. He was generous, and self-sacrificial. He always treated everyone he met as his equal, worthy of respect, an eternal being made in the image of God deserving to hear and know the Way to eternal life. My brother, sister and I are so blessed to have Dan Farr as our earthly father who always lived in a way that pointed to our Heavenly Father. Here are a few of the life-lessons he taught us to live by. I wish I could say that I have been as successful as he taught me.[Read more…] about Life-Lessons My Dad Taught Me
Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 5:17-19 that we are new creatures in Christ. The old person has passed away or died. The new has come. And because He reconciled us to Himself through Jesus, He has commissioned us with the ministry of reconciliation. What should we disciples do with this ministry of reconciliation? Among the New Testament teachings, I found three very important, very difficult aspects of reconciliation:
- Forgive each other the exact same way God forgives us (Matthew 5:14). This is hard. Really hard. God forgives us unconditionally, based completely on His grace. But sometimes, it seems impossible to forgive. It is! Without God, that is. But with God, we can forgive because we have been forgiven. Paul reminds us in Colossians 3:12-14 that peace comes to our hearts and we are bound in unity of His Spirit when we forgive. Furthermore, Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5:23-24 that if you have done wrong to someone, you shouldn’t approach the altar of worship until you have been reconciled through forgiveness. Hard to do? Yes! Impossible? Perhaps, under your own power and strength. But as God forgives you, you are commanded to forgive as you have been forgiven. Rely and trust God to give you the will (desire) and motivation (Spirit) to forgive and receive forgiveness.
- Accept each other the exact same way Jesus accepts us (Romans 15:7). Jesus was often criticized for being a friend of people who were rejected by His culture and society. Many times, the religious leaders led the way for rejection of “sinners”, tax collectors, prostitutes, and those afflicted with diseases associated with impiety.
- Love one another the exact same way Jesus loves us (John 13:34). Jesus commanded His disciples (and us) to love one another, and by doing so, all people will know who His disciples are. Are you identified by your love for others? John also defined what love is in 1 John 3:16: He gave is life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for one another.
Being a disciple is hard. In human terms, it is hard to be a disciple. Sometimes it even seems impossible. Our culture offers responses to life that are quite contrary to Jesus’ teaching: 1) Don’t forgive, get even … get ahead, and if you’ve done wrong to someone, deny it or blame someone else; 2) Accept those who are like yourself and those who accept you; and 3) Love yourself above all. In the biblical pattern, we are to: 1) Forgive others unconditionally, and accept responsibility and seek forgiveness when you’ve done wrong; 2) Accept others just the way they are; and 3) Love others unconditionally, even being willing to die for another.